Firstly, a lot of introspection. I felt the need to go back to first principles and evaluate what truly matters to me in my work.
Aside from the important work of introspection and subsequent goal setting, I’ve also actively pursued the dreams I had previously parked because life and work commitments kept getting in the way. For example, it has always been a lifelong dream of mine to become a published book writer. I decided I would go after this dream and not leave it to something I would do “when the time is right”.
I’m thrilled to share that I have just published my first book, ‘From Nowhere to Somewhere’, which is an autobiography chronicling my journey of making it into the renowned universities of Oxford and Cambridge from a small suburban town in Malaysia. In the book, I share the lessons I learned growing up and provide real practical advice for anyone aspiring to earn a place at Oxbridge or any world class university.
In addition to my writing endeavours, I’ve also spent time training at Rafael Nadal’s tennis academy in Mallorca to sharpen my groundstrokes and improve my serve. I even had the opportunity to meet Rafa himself (twice!) during my time there.
Professionally, I’ve been carrying out advisory work for private equity funds on an independent basis and I’m travelling quite a bit as well. Just in the past few weeks, I’ve been to Amsterdam to finalise my book, hiked in Wales’ stunning landscapes in Brecon Beacons, and will be living in Seville to learn Spanish for the next few weeks, before heading to South Africa for the first time at the end of August.
Amidst all this, I’m also making sure to prioritise quality time with my family and especially my parents, returning home to Malaysia to celebrate and truly be present when I’m with them.
The idea for this project actually came to me almost 8 years ago. As I mentioned, publishing my own book has always been a longstanding ambition of mine. I started by jotting down a few initial ideas in the notes app in my iPhone. From there, I began developing the key themes and chapters, refining the overall flow and gradually writing the content in parts.
However, due to the sporadic nature of my bursts of writing, stealing a few hours here and there, I didn’t really have periods of proper concentration to make substantial progress.
That said, effort, even in small doses, can and does accumulate over time. The little bits I did manage to write eventually started to coalesce and take shape. And when I left my role at Flutter, I dedicated my time to developing, refining and bringing to a conclusion this project I started almost 8 years ago.
It’s quite a personal book as I share a number of personal anecdotes and lessons I’ve learned, sometimes the hard way. I also spent considerable time and effort researching the latest Oxbridge application process, corroborating it with my own experiences. It’s really been a labour of love and I’m so proud to finally be able to bring it to life.
6. Why should anyone read this book?
If you or someone you know is applying to Oxbridge (perhaps your kid, friend, cousin, nephew or niece), this book is a comprehensive guide to earning a place at the universities of Oxford and Cambridge. It will be immensely helpful not only from a practical standpoint, outlining the necessary steps required to succeed, but also an inspiring read for anyone daring to dream big, whether their aspirations are on Oxbridge or not.
7. What is one thing that you wish people understood about the book writing process?
The journey of writing and publishing a book is paved with countless rejections. You will be met with many ‘no’s and you will need (to develop) a thick skin. The key is to keep going in the face of rejection.
Also, doing a little bit of writing each day consistently. Don’t underestimate the power of persistence – even when your writing may be far from flawless for example, each incremental step you take will add up, until you suddenly find yourself completing your book, as I found in my case.
Someone once shared this saying with me: Many people have books in their head, but few have the discipline to put pen to paper.
I think this saying captures the essence of the book writing process really well. A large part of it is discipline at the end of the day. 🙂
8. You’ve made it to the Amazon bestseller list! How does that feel?
It’s a little mind-blowing if I’m honest. I wrote the book mostly for myself as a personal side project. So the unexpected success of it since its launch has taken me a bit by surprise. But as soon as I announced my book was out, I can’t begin to tell you how amazing all my friends, family, and colleagues have been. Everyone has been so supportive, buying themselves a copy, and in some cases, buying multiple copies to gift to people they know.
And I think after a certain point, the algorithm on Amazon just takes over and it creates this virtuous cycle.
‘From Nowhere to Somewhere’ topped Amazon’s Hot New Releases list across 3 categories in 1 week and was the #2 best-selling book on Amazon in the ‘College & High School’ and ‘Graduate School’ categories in that same timeframe.
It was also interesting to see that my book was competing with the official GMAT and SAT guides, which do sell very well. But that did reinforce my hunch that there was a gap in the market for a university admissions guide, that didn’t have a typical textbook structure and was more conversational, personal, and an easier read.
I’m honestly delighted it is resonating. Becoming a published author was a lifelong dream I achieved last week when I finally launched my first book/autobiography after 8 years of working on it as a side project. To also become a best-selling author with my very first book is just unbelievable.”
9. Where can we get this book?
‘From Nowhere to Somewhere’ is available in paperback and ebook in major bookstores. From Amazon/Kindle and Barnes & Noble, to Apple Books and Rakuten Kobo, the links are below: